Love, Work

Alright boys and girls heres somethings you need to know. I work at a local day camp that is until this morning when I gave them my 2 weeks notice. Any way This morning we had a women come in and drop off her daughter. Now I have spoken to this women many a time and she has always been very pleasent to me and my staff. however last night when her husband picked up her daughter he claimed to have seen my self and a member of my staff acting in a inapproprete manner in front of th children. This is Bull, if any one knows how to act and when to act it is me. however this mother did not comfront myself the man incharge of day to day opperations she went striaght to to director of the enitre country club. he then phoned my boss who called me and the young lady involved in. we came in expecting that this was just a run of the mill meeting. we were wrong. The young women and my self are very close personal friends and have been seeing each other socialy for the past 3 weeks we did not want any of the co workers around us to think that I was playing favorites or that she was just trying to get better pay. so anyway we were given the right act about how to behave in front of children, We sat there and smiled and agreed and said nothing to contridict what was being said. We then informed them of what was happening in our lives and that we have been seeing each other for about a month. they laughed and said just keep it proffesional. we had no roblems with doing that. however at the meeting I could not help but wonder what we had done wrong, I do not remeber kissing her or touching her in a manner that I should not have in front of children. So I asked, this complaint was issued because she was holding my hand as we walked back to the tent from aquatics.

You see My only point is maybe she was just a close friend who need to be comforted or maybe she was playing around. I have this strange feeling that people just need to lighten up. If this man feels so uncomfortable looking at 2 people who care enough to show then how does he show his wife love or his children? Now I know love is a strong word God knows I am not really sure what love is, but I like to think it is knowing that you like someone enough that you dont care who knows it and they feel the same way.

The mans wife Came in today to pick up their child and I could not help but wonder if he thought holding hands in front of children for but a brief period of time was inaproprette then when was the last time he said a kind and loving word to his wife?

So all I am getting at is that if you have someone that you like enough to think that you love them then say and show it. because if you say it, it is nice but if you show it well That is just the icing on the cake.